SINGLE MOTHERHOOD
"Being a single mother by choice isn't about going it alone—it's about being brave enough to create the family you've always wanted, on your own timeline, surrounded by a community you choose."
- Cheri Bergeron
For women considering becoming mothers without a partner, there are communities, resources, and support networks ready to help. These resources can guide you through each step of the journey from decision-making to parenting.
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Single Mothers by Choice (SMC)
The original community for women choosing solo motherhood with private forums organized by stage: Thinking, Trying, Pregnant, Parenting. Offers local meetups and virtual groups.
https://www.singlemothersbychoice.org
The Single Greatest Choice
Podcast and resource hub focused on single motherhood by choice, covering sperm donor conception, emotional readiness, and financial preparation.
https://www.singlegreatestchoice.com
RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association
Advocacy organization with resources for single mothers and connections to support groups.
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Facebook Groups
Reddit Communities
Instagram Accounts
Podcasts
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"Single Mothers by Choice" by Jane Mattes
A must-read foundational text with practical and emotional guidance.
"Mission: Motherhood" by Cheri Bergeron
A gripping and hopeful memoir involving foster parenting, IVF, donor conception, and a landmark custody battle in Texas.
"Choosing Single Motherhood" by Mikki Morrissette
A research-rich, inclusive look at the journey and realities of solo parenting.
"The Single Mother's Social Club" by Jacinta Tynan
Honest and uplifting, especially good for navigating judgment or doubt.
"Going Solo" by Genevieve Roberts
Memoir-style exploration of choosing solo motherhood via donor conception.
"Motherhood Reimagined" by Sarah Kowalski
For women who hit fertility roadblocks and reimagined their paths.
"Three Makes Baby Workbook" by Jana Rupnow
Explores the emotional and ethical aspects of donor conception and family building.
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SeedCoach
Fertility-specific financial coaching.
https://www.yourseedcoach.com/
Future Family
Fertility financing, including donor sperm and IUI/IVF.
CapexMD
Fertility-specific loans for procedures using donor sperm.
Health Savings Accounts (HSA/FSA)
Can sometimes be used for donor sperm, insemination, and fertility-related care—check with your provider.
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Postpartum Support International (PSI)
Offers specific groups for single mothers and perinatal support.
Therapists specializing in solo motherhood & donor conception
Find specialists through the PSI Directory.
Thrive Psychology Group
Specializes in fertility journeys and family-building decisions.
https://www.mythrivepsychology.com/
Oaktown Therapy
Women of Color in California - specialized support for family-building decisions.